The Perfect Mate-Part 2

June 23rd, 2008

CounselorLetter The Perfect Mate–Part 2 (“Perfect Mate, Part 1″ is here) As you can tell from reading The Perfect Mate, Part 1, there really isn’t “the” perfect mate. Perhaps the most important notion to keep in mind is that the closest thing to perfection we can achieve in a relationship is providing a safe environment […]


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Relationship Difficulties

June 18th, 2008

Are Relationship Difficulties Not Responding To New Communication Skills? Learn Why That Is And How To Create The Marriage You Want! When I use the word “marriage” I include you who live with a partner, whether or not you are married. I am talking about ANYONE who is serious about their commitment to their relationship, […]


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Thoughts & Feelings

June 16th, 2008

CounselorLetter THOUGHTS AND FEELINGS: WHAT ARE THEY AND HOW DO THEY DIFFER? WHY DOES IT MATTER? WHAT THEY ARE AND HOW THEY DIFFER Thoughts: Thoughts convey to the listener what we are thinking. Sometimes these are referred to as cognitions. Thoughts and beliefs (another form of thought) usually precede our emotional or feeling state(s). The […]


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The Perfect Mate–Part 1

May 28th, 2008

CounselorLetter The Perfect Mate (“Perfect Mate, Part 2″ is here) The quest for the perfect mate clogs the online dating services. As Hope springs eternal, prospects who venture into the land of online dating seem to be in search of the perfect mate. Who can blame them? We all want to be wanted and loved. […]


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Emotional Safety

May 28th, 2008

CounselorLetter A Safe Emotional Environment In Marriage A safe environment has several elements at work. Here are three: 1. Showing up. That simply means that you do what you say you will do, and that you behave consistently with who you aspire to be. It is living with integrity, the honesty which ultimately makes for […]


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