What REALLY Changes A Relationship?

May 29th, 2013

It is often said that successful people do the things that unsuccessful people either don’t want to do, can’t do, or won’t do. I have found in all my years of doing counseling with couples, that the same axiom holds true for them: happy couples do the things that less happy or unhappy couples don’t […]


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Competitive vs Cooperative Communication

April 18th, 2011

Communication: Competitive  vs Cooperative We are taught from the earliest of ages that good communication is imperative.  In both subtle,  and direct ways, we are taught to be competitive when we communicate.  Simultaneously, we are told to be cooperative.  What an impossible task–to be cooperative and competitive at the same time. The conundrum we are […]


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We Fight!

November 19th, 2009

Tired of fighting about the same thing over, and over, and over again? This video will give you a tip on how to break that pattern! Conflict managed well will lead to more intimacy and closeness. Click on the video below.


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Stress & Couples

October 27th, 2009

Here’s a tip on how to reduce stress and increase intimacy simultaneously. Click on the video below.


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