April 12th, 2011
I want your input! Why? Because what you want matters to me. Tell me what aspect of managing conflict, managing your relationship, or any other aspect of your relationship you would like to see become part of my new program. The name of that program? RE-BOOTING YOUR RELATIONSHIP 2.0! This extensive program is nearing completion, and […]
Tags: communication, conflict, conflict resolution, counseling, Couples, Defensiveness, divorce, help for couples, menlo park counseling, Relationships, safe marriage couples conflict honesty
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November 19th, 2010
“We Need Communication Tools” Part II This is the second installment of a multi-part series spot-lighting some of the more common and complex, hard-to-break communication patterns most couples encounter at one time or another as they manage conflict. Possessing the tools for building a house does not necessarily mean you know how to build. Without […]
Tags: Blame, communication, communication skills, conflcit, conflict resolution, help for couples, menlo park counseling, safe marriage couples conflict honesty
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October 26th, 2010
Emotions Can Seem Tricky Like it or not, emotions, which can seem tricky, play a crucial role in the heat conflict. Here’s a way to deal with the way emotions can be confusing when you manage conflict. Anger seems to be the feeling most often expressed while under stress with our partners. So, consider this: […]
Tags: communication, communication skills, conflcit, conflict resolution, help for couples, menlo park counseling, safe marriage couples conflict honesty
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October 23rd, 2010
Conflict Perspectives Conflict in committed relationships is ubiquitous. All manner of resolution and management skills are at our disposal, but perhaps the one element we focus on the least is conflict perspective. When in conflict, regardless with whom, three distinct perspectives are possible. One, we can view the situation from only our own perspective. Two, […]
Tags: communication, communication skills, conflict resolution, counseling, help for couples, intimacy, menlo park counseling
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November 11th, 2008
Immediately Reduce Conflict By 50%–Here’s How In the physician’s office you’re not likely to query your doctor about his/her ailments. If you did, your own problem might not be adequately addressed. When you go to a physician, you go to explain what it is YOU are experiencing–where YOU hurt–what YOUR problem is. You do that […]
Tags: communication, communication skills, conflict resolution, couple in conflict, Couples, help for couples, intimacy, marital conflict, Marriage
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