November 1st, 2012
It never hurts to revisit an old topic, one that applies to every one of us: I am referring to effective conflict management. Three or four times a week I have a couple in my office and one of them says they are afraid of conflict. When I asked them what that means, typically [...]
Tags: communication, conflict resolution, Defensiveness, help for couples, intimacy, menlo park counseling
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December 11th, 2011
One way to undercut a relationship is by not managing conflict effectively. And that will usually occur one of two ways: Either you are afraid of conflict, and avoid it, or your methods of managing conflict render you more like a bull in a china shop than like a loving partner. Both methods may be [...]
Tags: communication, conflict, conflict avoidance, conflict resolution, fear of fighting, help for couples, menlo park counseling, Relationships, safe marriage couples conflict honesty
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June 13th, 2011
Change your Thinking- Improve Conflict Management If you really want to improve your communication skills, particularly related to conflict management, it’s crucial to begin with changing your thinking. For the moment, forget about finding new skills, getting new tools. Start with changing your thinking. New thinking helps create new and effective patterns of conflict management, [...]
Tags: communication, conflict, counseling, help for couples, intimacy, Marriage, menlo park counseling, new thinking, old thinking, thinking and conflict
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April 15th, 2011
The following is an article from Psychology Today, and it hits the nail on the head about essential rules that can guide you when managing conflict. You will find it at this link: Psychology Today Wishing you a satisfying relationship, Jim Hutt, Ph.D., MFT ©2011 CounselorLink.com
Tags: communication, conflict, conflict resolution, couple in conflict, help for couples, intimacy, menlo park counseling, premarital, Relationships, safe marriage couples conflict honesty
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April 12th, 2011
I want your input! Why? Because what you want matters to me. Tell me what aspect of managing conflict, managing your relationship, or any other aspect of your relationship you would like to see become part of my new program. The name of that program? RE-BOOTING YOUR RELATIONSHIP 2.0! This extensive program is nearing completion, and [...]
Tags: communication, conflict, conflict resolution, counseling, Couples, Defensiveness, divorce, help for couples, menlo park counseling, Relationships, safe marriage couples conflict honesty
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