CounselorLetter A Safe Emotional Environment In Marriage A safe environment has several elements at work. Here are three: 1. Showing up. That simply means that you do what you say you will do, and that you behave consistently with who you aspire to be. It is living with integrity, the honesty which ultimately makes for […]

Half Of All Marriages End In Divorce You do not have to be on the painful end of that statistic! First of all, when I use the word ‘marriage:’ I use the word in a manner that includes those who have decided to live together regardless of whether or not they have had a traditional […]

HAS YOUR RELATIONSHIP SURVIVED AN AFFAIR? ARE YOU WILLING TO SHARE YOUR STORY? If your relationship has survived an affair, I would very much like to hear from you.  Your stories, experiences and recovery process, if you are willing to share them, may be very helpful to others.  My desire is to learn from you, […]