November 12th, 2009

Are you, or your partner, experienced as being controlling?  Controlling behavior is a very misunderstood pattern, and is often responded to with “Stop being so controlling!!” We all know such a command seldom, if ever works.  For more understanding on what controlling behavior is really about, and how to deal with it more effectively, click […]

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Stress & Couples

October 27th, 2009

Here’s a tip on how to reduce stress and increase intimacy simultaneously. Click on the video below.

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Be Understood

August 7th, 2009

“YOU JUST DON’T UNDERSTAND!” Your conflicts sometimes lead to painful or bitter fights.  When all is said and done after your difference du jour, you both feel frustrated, hurt, dejected and misunderstood.  You both know you will repeat your familiar but painful scenario in the near future; it’s a matter of when, not if.  You […]

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Discipline vs Obedience

April 1st, 2009

All parents want to raise kids with the ability to make good decisions.  One of the crucial elements required of parents is this:  Parents must first understand the difference between discipline and obedience. Check out the video below, and you will be a step closer to well disciplined kids who will make better decisions.

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Couple Hierarchy?

November 17th, 2008

CONSIDERATION VS. PERMISSION Don’t you hate to approach your spouse/partner with questions that can elicit the answer “NO!”?   For example: “Honey, is it OK if I …(fill in the blank)?”  Or, “Can I …(fill in the blank)?”   Some of you guys out there, more than once, have implored your partner/spouse:  “Can I go bowling tonight?”  […]

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